tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-752784883646938689.post702643650348602869..comments2023-06-21T05:28:33.186-07:00Comments on Where's my white picket fence?: GuiltLuckyOncehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07778768854314345726noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-752784883646938689.post-59322121852866131282009-06-15T05:45:16.095-07:002009-06-15T05:45:16.095-07:00I wonder if the guilt ever goes away.
I was readi...I wonder if the guilt ever goes away.<br /><br />I was reading another person's blog (she seems to be really depressed about it and not handling it well at all - Noelle) and she was told by one of her male coworkers about his wife's miscarriage. I think he said they have children after that, and it's now like a blip in their history.<br /><br />I am hoping that's the case for me. I know I won't feel 100% satisfied though until I have a baby. *sigh*<br /><br />good luck - i am waiting for next week right there with you!<br /><br />(verification code is "turism". maybe that means I need a vacation.)Wifezzillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13488747777549305216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-752784883646938689.post-9421009018942250782009-06-12T19:27:10.185-07:002009-06-12T19:27:10.185-07:00I felt extreme guilt after my miscarriage. To this...I felt extreme guilt after my miscarriage. To this day, I still think it may have been something that could have been prevented.<br /><br />I know where you're coming from, and I am sorry. I wish we didn't have to go through this...ever.<br /><br />I hope you're feeling well with this pregnancy.Staciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05001084739450044925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-752784883646938689.post-65779586516306969972009-06-12T16:03:57.625-07:002009-06-12T16:03:57.625-07:00I am struggling for words. I am so sorry that you...I am struggling for words. I am so sorry that you lost your baby, and just as sorry that you worry that you could have/should have saved it. I'm horrified for you, for what might have happened, for what surely to God couldn't have happened. <br /><br />The sad truth is that no one prepares women for anything going wrong in a pregnancy so that when it does, we're all shocked and unprepared and unable to even frame it in our minds. How is one supposed to make important decisions when she's just been told she's lost her child? Who thinks calmly and rationally about the proper steps to take or if they need a second opinion? <br /><br />I don't think it was your fault. I don't think that you were in any way responsible for your baby's death. I had that second opinion and it didn't help my baby one bit. But I wish you'd gotten it so that you wouldn't have that guilt. <br /><br />((((hugs))))Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10167975377269696346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-752784883646938689.post-42524347063660779472009-06-12T15:55:28.996-07:002009-06-12T15:55:28.996-07:00I see what you're saying about the guilt. I wo...I see what you're saying about the guilt. I would probably think the same thing. I'm sure the techs knew what they were doing and I'm sorry you are full of doubt. :(<br />(((Hugs)))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com