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Thursday, February 28, 2013

The birth story

I was pretty uncomfortable by the end there - ready to have my VERY swollen legs back to normal.  It was bad enough so that when I walked up the stairs at night the backs of my knees hurt from the tightness as I bent them.

I was scheduled for an induction on Tuesday, December 4th if I didn't go into labor before that.  I had a non-stress test that Saturday December 1st in the morning.  I had lost at least part of my mucous plug the night before so I had hopes that something might be happening.  The NST was routine and I went home to wait it out.

Sometime after noon on the 1st, I began to have some contractions.  They weren't too painful, and not too close together, but they kept coming all afternoon.  I still had things to do, so I spent the afternoon doing normal stuff, like mopping the kitchen floor (lots of contractions during that!) and other things that needed to get done.

By around 7 pm my contractions were getting stronger, more painful, and more organized.  T made dinner and I lay on the sofa timing my contractions with contractionmaster.com.  (I finally got a chance to use it!)  They were pretty consistently between 3 and 5 minutes apart, but I've been in labor before, and they didn't feel strong enough to be dangerous.  T kept asking me how close together they were, but I was afraid to tell him because I thought he was going to freak out.  He was worried that we were going to have the baby on the highway during our 7 minute drive to the hospital, but I was worried about going too soon and being sent home.

A little before 10 pm, I called my friend H, who was our "on-call" person for Saturday night.  I told her I wasn't sure, but that I thought I should probably go to the hospital, so she came to stay with the kids overnight.  After she arrived, we were on our way to the hospital around 10:30 pm.  It was kind of weird to go to the door at L&D and say "I think I'm in labor" over the intercom, after having been there so many times for NSTs!

When the nurse checked my cervix when I arrived, I was at 4 cm but the baby's head was still high and my water was in tact.  I labored in the bed for an hour or two, falling in and out of sleep.  When I was next checked, I was still only about 5 cm dilated so the doctor and I agreed that I would get an epidural at about 2:30 and would start on a small dose of pitocin at 3 am to increase the strength of the contractions.  The epidural was a sh**show.  The guy couldn't find the right space for the tube, and had to try four times (four different sticks in the spine) to get it in.  However, once it was in, it made it all worth it.  Sweet relief!  (For any first time moms, don't be freaked out by this.  It was the only time of the three kids that I had any problem with the epidural.)

Once the epidural and pitocin were placed, T and I both slept for a while, until about 6 am. Around 6:30 I began to get a little more uncomfortable even with the epidural in place.  About five minutes before 7, my water broke on its own, and I called the nurse.  My cervix was 9 cm at that time and the baby's head had finally dropped into the birth canal and engaged for delivery.

The on call doctor was at a neighboring hospital delivering another baby at the time, so she was paged.  By the time she arrived, I was ready to push.  For a little added excitement, another mom had just arrived fully dilated so there was some question about who would be delivered first.  When the nurse asked me about my previous deliveries and I told her that E was delivered after three minutes of pushing it was determined that I would deliver first!

You may want to skip this part if you're not into the gory details...

With my first push, the baby's head crowned and they told me to stop pushing.  They then said, "you can push with the next contraction" but I was in so much pain that I said, "Can I just push NOW???"  With that, he was born, shooting out into the world, in a literal TIDAL wave of amniotic fluid.  According to my husband, neither the two gallon bucket at the end of the bed, nor all of the towels around were any match for the amount of fluid that was there, and the doctor actually had to "catch" the baby because he came out so fast! He was born at 7:37 am.

He cried almost before he was out, which was wonderful, and he was placed on my chest.  There had been meconium in the fluid, so he was quickly taken to be checked by the NICU doctor.  He was taken to the special care nursery for a couple of hours because his blood sugar was low and his Oxygen saturation was a little low as well.  I was sad that I wasn't able to nurse him right away, but luckily it didn't cause any significant nursing issues.

While I was in the hospital he slept mostly on me/in my lap, which began a long saga of sleeping with him on me because he wouldn't sleep any other way.  Thankfully, we've made it over that hump and he is now sleeping in his bassinet and has been for a couple of weeks, since he was about 2 1/2 months old.

I'm going to share his name here with you since you've been on this journey with me, but I will be deleting it for anonymity after a little while, so please don't write his name specifically in the comments.

Baby G was born at 7:37 am on December 2, 2012 weighing 8lbs. 6 oz. and 21 1/2 inches in length.  We are in love.
 

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

He's here!

Hi all, this going to be a quickie, and I'll be back with more details later.

I went into labor on my own (Yay!) on Saturday the 1st and delivered on Sunday morning 12-2-12.  He's beautiful and perfect (as all babies are) and we're in love.  :)

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Lies... They're all lies.

When people tell you that "it's your third, it will come more quickly."  "You'll be early."  "My first two were late, but the third one was two weeks early." 

Don't believe them.  They're liars.  (I've been convinced all along that I wouldn't be early, but I was hoping the liars were right.)

40 plus 4

And no induction for me this week because his head is still too high.

NST on Saturday.  Doctor's office on Monday.  Induction Tuesday at 40 plus NINE.  (just a reminder that D was induced at 40+1 and E was induced at 40+5.)

On the bright side,

1. My placenta is still young and healthy and I have "plenty" of amniotic fluid.

2. I'm still getting stuff done on my "before the baby is born" to-do list.

3. Maybe I'll go into labor on my own.


Saturday, November 24, 2012

40 weeks

Happy due date to me.

And still pregnant.  Haha.

NST scheduled for tomorrow and my doctor is back from vacation on Tuesday.  I'm definitely envisioning another induction this week.  I've had two already so why not continue the tradition, right?

One good thing about not going early is that I've gotten tons done in the past couple of weeks, so I feel much more prepared now than I did a couple of weeks ago. (That basically means I've had time to clean my house, catch up on laundry, buy and wrap some final Christmas presents, etc.  It doesn't mean I'm any more prepared for the baby!  lol)

So that's where I am - just hanging out waiting to pop.  It's eviction day, baby.  Get with the program!

Thursday, November 15, 2012

38 and 5

This time has flown by.

I'm nervous.  I'm not particularly nervous about the labor and delivery (though there is always the thought of stillbirth and complications at the back of my mind) but I'm nervous about the after.  The stark reality of THREE kiddos is looming very clearly in my future.  I'm sure it will be fine once we're in a routine, but I'm also sure that there will be more than one day when we'll miss the bus and end up driving to school because I can't get myself and all 3 kiddos acts together by 8:20.  C'est la vie, eh?

Baby boy is about 7lbs. 9oz. as of yesterday, head down, but my cervix is still looooooong and closed.  (I'm not too worried about the weight because I was told D was bigger than he ended up being too.  All those measurements are approximations.)  My weekly non-stress tests have been uneventful, in general.  My blood pressure has been running a little high here and there, but luckily there's been no talk of pre-eclampsia or bed rest. 

My doctor is on vacation until 11/27, and he seems to think I won't deliver before then since my other two were late.  I've got an appointment scheduled for that day, and according to him "we'll talk about an induction then."  I was induced with E five days after my due date, and I guess if I don't go by the 27th, the odds are good that I will probably be about the same with this guy.  (Just watch.  Because I'm saying all this, I'll end up going into labor like, TOMORROW.)  I guess I should spend some time looking for those bassinet sheets today...

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

I know I'll wish I'd updated more

I know that once the baby's born, I'll wish that I had posted more so I could look back and see when things were happening, but c'est la vie... Life gets in the way.

I'm very busy these days with two kiddos, NSTs once a week, OB appointments once a week, volunteering for a local mother's group, and volunteering a LOT of time with a local theater group.  Plus, I feel like keeping tabs on the paper going in and out of our house is a full time job.  Between the junk mail and political ads and the REAMS of paper that get sent home from Kindergarten (plus of course coupons and circulars!) the paper is overwhelming!!  I had no idea how many worksheets and art projects a 5 year old could pump out in a 6 hour day!

Baby is doing well.  He's been a little booger about staying in one spot (namely head DOWN) but he does currently have his head down and I'm hoping he'll stay that way.  Doc says that if I keep my bladder empty that will help, but since there are times of day when I feel like I have to pee 7 minutes after I pee, I'm thinking about building a bed in the bathroom.  My non-stress tests have been fairly uneventful, and the baby always gets great marks, but my blood pressure has run a little high on and off, so they're still keeping a close eye on it.  No protein or sugar in the urine so far, so fingers are crossed. 

I'm nervous about having three littles to deal with.  It's definitely going to be a learning curve.

35w 3d.  That is all.

Monday, October 8, 2012

NST time

Well, now things are getting very real ladies.  And very close.  At my OB appointment last Thursday (32 weeks) my blood pressure was just a little elevated (128/84 I think) so I was a little nervous because of the differences in this pregnancy when compared to the other two kiddos.  There's still no protein in my urine, so that's good, but my feet have still been swelling on a constant basis.  I've also had more heartburn this time than the other times. 

The doctor decided that I should go for a non-stress-test every week from now until the baby is born.  I went for my first one this past Sunday, and my blood pressure was 135/84 when the nurse first tested.  "George" was very cooperative and had all the correct heart rate accelerations and decelerations, but then he wouldn't STOP moving so she could get a baseline reading.  That just meant that I got to hang out for a little longer sipping water and watching tv.  This might not be so bad after all.  The other good news is that I may get to meet most of the nurses on the L&D floor before I deliver which will be great.  After the NST, the nurse took my BP again, and it had reduced to 128/80.  Still not 110/70 like it has been running, but not as bad.  I will admit that this occurrence has caused me to think twice about what the next few weeks are really going to look like.  Hoping they won't involve bed rest or any blood pressure complications.  I can't believe that my due date is now less than 7 weeks away.  Wish me luck!